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Neurodivergence

Support for ADHD and Autism 

What is neurodivergence? 

Neurodivergence describes the natural diversity of human brains.

There is no single “normal” way to think, feel, learn, or experience the world. Some brains process information deeply, notice patterns others miss, feel emotions intensely, think creatively, or move through life with a different rhythm.

Neurodivergent people often bring strengths such as insight, empathy, innovation, focus, and authenticity. At the same time, living in environments built mostly for neurotypical ways of being can create real stress, exhaustion, and misunderstanding.

Neurodivergence is not something to fix or change. Therapy focuses on understanding your nervous system, honouring your needs, and shaping a life that fits you.

What is ADHD?

Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) is a neurodevelopmental difference that affects attention regulation, task initiation, impulse control, emotional regulation, and executive functioning. ADHD can show up in many ways, including:

 

  • Attention that is interest-driven and can be harder to redirect between tasks

  • Deep focus with transitions between tasks requiring more support

  • Capacity for deep, sustained focus on areas of interest

  • Strong ability to become fully immersed in meaningful or engaging tasks

  • Time perception differences or challenges with organisation

  • Rich emotional experience with increased sensitivity to internal and external cues

  • Need for movement and physical engagement

  • ​Body-based regulation needs (e.g., movement, fidgeting, pacing)

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What is Autism?

Autism is a natural variation in how the brain develops and experiences the world.

It shapes the way someone communicates, connects with others, processes sensory information, feels emotions, and makes meaning of their surroundings.

Autistic people often bring strengths such as deep thinking, honesty, creativity, strong values, rich inner worlds, and the ability to notice details and patterns.

Autism is highly individual and may include:

  • Unique ways of communicating and relating

  • Heightened sensory awareness and/or sensory-seeking preferences

  • Preference for predictability, structure, and clear expectations

  • Thrives with consistency, routine, and clarity in environments

  • Deep interests and focused passions

  • Depth-oriented thinking and emotional processing style

Do you work with adults who are self-identified or late-diagnosed?

Yes. Many adults come to therapy questioning whether they may be autistic or ADHD, or after receiving a diagnosis later in life. You do not need a formal diagnosis to access neuro-affirming therapy. Therapy can support identity exploration, self-understanding, and making sense of past experiences prior to exploring assessment options. ​

What mental health difficulties often co-occur with ADHD and autism?

Many neurodivergent adults experience secondary mental health challenges, often due to long-term stress, misunderstanding, or lack of support rather than neurodivergence itself.

Common experiences include:

  • Anxiety, often linked to unpredictability, sensory overload, social pressure, or past experiences of being misunderstood.

  • Depression and burnout frequently related to chronic masking, exhaustion, unmet needs, or repeated invalidation.

  • Masking and people-pleasing. The effort of hiding neurodivergent traits to appear acceptable or “cope” can lead to emotional fatigue, identity confusion, and burnout,

  • Trauma - many neurodivergent people experience relational, developmental, or complex trauma due to bullying, exclusion, feeling misunderstood, or being forced to ignore their needs.

Resources and support for ADHD and Autism 

Exploring neurodivergence can feel validating, emotional, and sometimes overwhelming all at once. Many people find comfort in hearing others’ stories and learning from voices within the community.

These books and podcasts offer neuroaffirming perspectives, practical strategies, and a sense of connection and understanding.

Podcasts

  • The Neurodivergent Woman Podcast
    Thoughtful, evidence informed conversations about ADHD, autism, and the lived experiences of neurodivergent women, hosted by clinicians and advocates.

  • inTune Pathways: The Podcast
    Gentle, validating discussions and practical supports for neurodivergent people navigating everyday life.

  • How to ADHD
    Compassionate, practical strategies and relatable insights into ADHD, with a strong focus on self acceptance and strengths.

Books

  • Unmasking Autism by Devon Price
    A validating and empowering exploration of autistic identity, masking, and self acceptance, especially meaningful for late identified adults.

  • We’re Not Broken by Eric Garcia
    A strengths based look at autism that challenges stereotypes and reframes the conversation toward acceptance and systemic change.

Practical support

  • Order from Chaos
    Practical organising and executive functioning strategies created with ADHD brains in mind, focused on realistic, shame free systems.

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